{"id":1696,"date":"2020-04-12T10:28:19","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T10:28:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/webonlinestudio.com\/blog\/?p=1696"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:11:24","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:11:24","slug":"what-is-love-and-when-you-really-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/webonlinestudio.com\/blog\/what-is-love-and-when-you-really-love\/","title":{"rendered":"WHAT IS LOVE AND WHEN YOU REALLY LOVE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

What is love?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, the question is too deep for an ordinary mortal like me, so I let an expert in human nature<\/strong> answer, the person who most of all made me understand what it really means to love, Erich Fromm<\/a> :<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love is an active power of<\/strong> man; a power that cancels the walls that separate him from his fellow men, which makes him overcome the sense of isolation and separation, and yet allows him to be himself and to maintain his integrity. It seems like a paradox, but in love two beings become one<\/strong> , yet remain two. <\/strong><\/p>

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Here we find the fundamental element for a relationship based on true love, being one while being two.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact, it often happens that in relationships one cancels oneself, that one becomes one with the other person forgetting to have an identity<\/strong> .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or it happens that you forget to have a partner and only do what you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first are those in which we live in function of the other<\/strong> , in which we put aside passions, interests or friends, for one’s partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The latter are instead those cases in which the other does not even exist<\/strong> , in which one is so sure of his presence that nothing is done to appreciate or gratify him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Between the two extremes of co-dependent and detached relationship there<\/strong> should be what we can define a healthy and lasting relationship , as well as the answer to the questions What is love? <\/em>and When do you really love each other?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everyone thinks they know what love is<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There is no other word in the world that has been more idealized, and perhaps  misunderstood<\/strong> , than the word  “love”.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Everyone knows what love is<\/strong> or, at least, they think they know it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the name of love poetry, music, literature, cinema and art have indulged. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the name of what is called love<\/em> , eternal <\/strong>promises<\/strong>  and blatant deeds are made, and then one gets angry and suffers.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We could talk about it indefinitely, yet we would only scratch its true meaning<\/strong> .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because love is all that we believe to be and also  the opposite<\/strong> :<\/p>\n\n\n\n